For friendships to last long, it should be accepted in advance that humans are weak and flawed. In the Qur’an, God says that humans are ungrateful, cruel and ignorant. Those who adopt such an attitude towards God would do much more to other people. In awareness of this fact, one needs to use a rational approach and behave rationally and compassionately without getting upset and exaggerating matters. Otherwise it is not possible to establish relations with anyone. One should always act by looking at the auspicious, good and beautiful aspect of everything. - Harun Yahya