Whispers are devastating humanity. People are suffocated by whispers. The best thing to do is to take refuge with Allah from the whispers and do not give them the time of the day. Not thinking about them and not minding them, not giving consequence to them is the best action. You should say; "my friend, I am not interested in you, come to me 10 years later, only then I will take care of you." If you do not give them the time of the day, they will go away. If you attach importance to them, they will push you around. - Harun Yahya