Treating others the way you want to be treated
The most beautiful, the most meaningful word is ‘God.’
When there is something wrong, this must be spoken of using a pleasant language. Using a challenging language and talking pedantically is wrong. It is important to explain errors by giving solid examples. But using a tone of challenge would do more harm than good.
Anyone who is lenient and talks graciously earns merits. Believers earn merits for state administration for they also do it as an act of worship.
There is no sense in economizing in good words; such words could be said repeatedly. Love is based on repetition anyway. Love should be voiced over and over. For instance one does not say “I love you” only once in a lifetime; such words of endearment should be said numerous times.
A destructive attitude is unacceptable for a Muslim. God says, “” He says, “If you had been rough or hard of heart, they would have scattered from around you. “
If you want your words to be healing and instructive, you should be aware that the Qur’an has taken a lenient, gentle attitude as a basis. That means fair admonition, saying good words, approaching people with compassion; those are the commands of the Qur’an.
