Gentility is important. An environment in which people act crudely or a shallow person would be very disturbing. Vulgar people are very disturbing. Gentle people satisfy one's soul. No harm would come from a gentle person. There is even a Turkish proverb to that effect. They say; "a gentle person does not go astray, just as honey does not stink." That is a very well- known proverb. But one can expect anything from a banal person, from a crude person. They suck up to others, they manipulate others for their own interests, they behave egotistically. But a gentle, noble person would never stoop to such behaviors. - Harun Yahya